POEMOGRAPHY | 2025
Poems by R.M. Usatinsky
pōəˈmäɡrəfē, noun: form or process of writing and representing poetry
DECEMBER
01DEC25 | THE VOICE ON THE PHONE
This was a frenetic dream,
more than most and there
wasn’t even pizza involved
in its procurement; it was a
family dream, mostly second
cousins—I thought I was in
Paris, but it seems I was in my
old childhood apartment on
Washtenaw; I sat down in a
small armchair in front of the
window, one of the chair legs
got caught on the corner of the
rug; the phone rang and I sat
down and answered it; it was
my grandmother; “Mary Lurie!”
I exclaimed; “is that you Mary?”
02DEC25 | THAT ONE PHOTO
It was taken years ago,
sometime in the winter
of 2017; it’s me with all
my children; we’re sitting
on the stairs beside the white
sofa I bought from that girl
with the big white dog (I loved
that couch and miss it dearly);
behind us, under the stairs, you
can see toys and stuffed animals
nicely arranged—like in a toy
store; everyone is smiling, content
to be together, my father’s pride is
beaming from my eyes; and that one
photo, from that one moment in time,
captured the happiest moment in my life
03DEC25 | BLUEBERRIES
There are some blueberries in the fridge,
a small box of them set atop of a tub of
Greek-style yoghurt; I mix these together
with some dark chocolate granola and a
bit of honey; but the blueberries have been
there now for two weeks or so, barley eaten
and as I’ve run out of granola, I can’t seem
to be bothered to use them (I am equally
unbothered to walk into the village for more
granola so I imagine the blueberries have gone
off by now but I’m not bothered to look as to
save myself from the regret of having wasted
money on food that I have to throw away; but
I suppose all of that points the bigger problem,
that I just can’t find the wherewithal to get out
out of the house and buy some fresh blueberries
04DEC25 | WAITING FOR THE REAL LIFE
I read somewhere that walking away
from someone who diminishes you
isn't weakness—it's the beginning of
your real life; I understand that now,
maybe better than I’ve ever understood
anything; you see, I’ve lived a thousand
lives—good lives (though I haven’t been
to nearly as many weddings as I would
have liked); but looking back on all of
those well-lived lives, I realize they were
merely lived as fantasies, inventions of
a vivid imagination, a man trying to be
something, to be things he was never
meant to be; perhaps it was fear that was
holding me back, or someone else’s lack
of understanding; so I waited for the real life
05DEC25 | RETREAT
Something is pulling me away,
and the pull is getting stronger
and stronger with each passing
day; I don’t know where it’s
coming from—or where it might
pull me to, but I don’t think I’ll
be able to fight it much longer;
if I only knew what it was or from
whence it came—if I could surmise
whether it was love or death or a
mere hint of my demise I would
know just when and where and how
to retreat, to escape if escaping is what
I need to do to fend off the thing or to
keep it at bay, to buy myself some time
to come up with the best plan of action
06DEC25 | ANGELA
I spent some time this morning
looking through old emails trying
to find one from a distant cousin,
a blind woman on my maternal
grandfather’s side of the family;
while scrolling through years of
messages, I came across one—
from five years ago—a longish
thread of conversations with a
woman named Angela, who I
apparently connected with on
a Facebook group; the messages
were vague and I couldn’t make
any sense about what we were
talking about as the odd thread
went from vegan food to divorce
07DEC25 | RESTRICTED MOVEMENT
It was high time that I clipped
my toe nails, so I made sure to
leave the toe nail clipper out so
I’d be sure to take it upstairs to
the bathroom when I got home
from work; I showered (because
it’s good to soften up the nails
before you cut them), dried my
hair (I use the blow dryer to dry
my whole body and to warm up
after my shower as by the time I
get home from work—well after
midnight—the thermostat’s been
tuned down and the bathroom is
nippy); then as I attempted to clip
my toe nails, I found it challenging
08DEC25 | DREAMS OF WATER AND MONEY
I’ve watched a lot of films this year—
three hundred and twelve to date to
be exact—and I’m certain that many
of my dreams lately reflect some of
those films; last night, for example,
a dream where I was with a group
of fellow travelers—mostly well-to
do professionals: doctors, lawyers—
hiking along some pristine dunes in
an unfamiliar country (in Africa, I’m
inclined to say); for some reason we
emptied our pockets, setting our wallets
aside; suddenly, as I was the straggler
trailing far behind, I noticed the tide
coming in and started taking money out
of the wallets while calling out to the men
09DEC25 | BIRTHDAY
Another year has passed;
the third (and the third in
silence); but this year the
silence was louder, more
pronounced and certainly
more profound; this was
the year of no return, the
year when my heart turned
cold; the year where your
memory faded from the
place it had been holding
for you; the year that made
everything good about you
and me become everything
sorrowful and grim; the year
when you became dead to me
10DEC25 | THE BOOK THAT MALLORY GAVE ME
The book that Mallory gave me,
the one by the poor sod who laid
dying in Geneva, the book that, long
ago she dedicated to me—to the first
real poet I’ve ever met; the book that
sat on my shelf for years, that traveled
with me to Spain, England and the Low
Countries—the book whose spine I never
cracked, whose pages I never turned and
whose words I never read; but now, after
all these years, my curiosity has led me
to go to the basement where the book has
occupied space in one of the dozen or so
remaining boxes that have contained the
remnants of my life for nearly forty years;
I will find it and, when I do, I will read it
11DEC25 | STATISTICS
I’ve been divorced longer
than I was married; I have
lived away from Spain two
years longer than lived there;
I’ve lived in my current home
longer than I’ve lived in any
other home I’ve lived in; the
business I currently run is the
most successful and longest run
of any business I started (going
on eight years); I’ve lived abroad
nearly half of the sixty-two years
I’ve been alive; I’ve been speaking
Spanish for thirty-eight years; I’ve
raised five children and have changed
around twenty-five thousand diapers
12DEC25 | DEFLATED EXPECTATIONS
I’m not even sure what I was
thinking, all I know is that I
really didn’t want to be there,
not today, and not with her;
she really is kind and lovely,
but there simply isn’t a spark,
no intellectual compatibility
and unfortunately no physical
attraction; I don’t really know
what I expected anyway, perhaps
someone to be swept off their
feet and fall madly in love with
me; that sort of thing used to
happen, forty years ago, but
I’m no longer that person and
I guess I really don’t want to be
13DEC25 | SARAN WRAP
It would be nice—greatly appreciated even—
if you could put the leftovers on a plate or
into a bowl and cover them with Saran Wrap
or some aluminum foil rather than—like you
did with last night’s ravioli—left them in the
colander where they dried out and somehow
mysteriously fused together into a patty of
rubbery something or another which defies
description; and how hard is it to place the
cutlery into the cutlery tray like you’re not
a savage; or putting the glassware and mugs
into the cupboard with some semblance of
harmony; and not complaining when there
are dishes left in the sink when you leave
tea-stained mugs in the bedroom and the
bathroom; how about a little less hypocrisy
14DEC25 | LATE AUTUMN SUNSET
There is something magical
in the late autumn sunset; I
was sitting at my desk and
all at once there appeared an
apparition of sorts, something
cosmic gleaming on the surface
of my black fleece hoodie; it was
a reflection of the sun setting at the
back of the house shining off of a
small plastic ruler I keep in my pen
cup—actually a mug from my first
semester at DePaul with the old school
logo; then I remembered I had some
cabbage soup on the stove and while I
was eating, the groceries arrived; after
that I finished my soup thinking about Rob